This is a biggie,how do you do that when you believe you made very very grave mistakes in the past and you’re not sure about yourself anymore?
I guess its starts small..trusting yourself with little things,and building it up.How have you treated someone that has betrayed your trust and you gave them a second chance? (what? me? never give a second chance sniff sniff)okay so maybe you don’t give anyone else a second chance,but you will have to give yourself one because you’re all you’ve got.Maybe you must realise that those decisions you made then were the only ones you were brave and mature enough to make at that time.You have learnt,indeed you have,now its time to give the new you a go.Go ahead..trust yourself.